Day Two

She texted me this morning, but only for about an hour. This is what usually happens, then she starts ignoring me. I caught her on Facebook for a second and tried to talk to her but she said to text her (even though I had been and she wasn't answering) because she had to go. I then texted her and told her that it bothered me when she would just stop responding without even saying bye. She responded and apologized, then told me she was gonna take a shower, and that she would text me after. Now its been over an hour and she hasn't answered me, and she never takes this long. It irritates me how she says she is going to text me after and that she will stop doing this ignoring crap but then she does it again LITERALLY right after. It would be one thing if she still did it occasionally, but its irritating when its almost all the time, even after she says she wont do it any more. And the worst part was that last night I was finally starting to feel ok with not being with her, because she made it sound like we were going to still be good friends. But now I feel like crap again cause she's doing the same stuff that she was doing last night.

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ChiTownBear
ChiTownBear

you have to back off on the texting, bro. I only say this for your own good. You text her, and let it be. let her respond when she wants to. Her responses to you, saying she will be better only give you false hope unfortunately. Her actions should tell you what you need to know.

easier said then done, but please know, for your own good , and to not look stalkerish, you need to text and let it be. If she don\'t text back... don\'t text again...

some times, we need to remember to give value to a situation that equals the value that someone else is putting in.
Wk22
Wk22

youre right I know.. i feel like i always put in more effort than she does. i wont text her again until she texts me back. just some times she takes forever like she hasnt answered me in i think 5 hours... ill be patient though. thanks for the advice
ChiTownBear
ChiTownBear

most likely, she is off doing something to where she can\'t or doesn\'t want to text you. Sorry, but most likely, that is the only reason. Unless someone kidnapped her phone or it got run over by a car...

patience is a virtue... but hard as hell when you just want to know, you are being seen.
Wk22
Wk22

I believe that she is out with this other guy. Apparently he invited her out a few nights ago, and they have hung out several times sense. I know that she now likes him, but she told me she doesnt know where it will go. Im assuming she is with him. That makes it even harder to be more patient. I have to wait all day for her to text me back and when she does I know that Im going to ask her what happened... Its like I dont want to know but I just have to know. Thats the worst.