Day 20 A not friend shows up...

So this is a kinda weird thing that happened to me today... My ex showed up at my door asking if he could stay for a week.  Keep in mind that this is the same guy that went out with my now ex best friend almost right after I broke up with him a little more than half a year ago.  Now I say ex but we weren't really together, we never went on any dates we never kissed and we didn't do anything more than chat on Skype so... Yeah.  Also he's from North Dakota, so its like, he drove out here to see Oregon but it feels so weird and awkward having the same guy who caused my friendship with my ex best friend to crumble after 10 years sleeping on my couch...
In other news, I went to a tree lighting on Friday to support my old choir group, and I talked to some of my old friends and it actually made me feel less alone than I have felt in months.  I told them I'd visit them sometime this month.  I didn't say when though and I'm determined to keep that a secret ;).  I'll write the day I do visit so you know what all is going on.