Dangers of the Internet

OK.  So my wife was getting back at me for past "crimes" that I commited back in 2000...  Unforgivable "crimes" in her mind.  Her sister was living with us at that time and I showed too much caring for her...  Not good.  May God forgive me for shwoing feelings towards her... So flash forward to present.  Wife joins a website from the country she is from in order to express things she just cannot with me due to our language and cultural differences.  I of course encouraged this.  As you all know, I am not an ass. So she meets lots of folks and many have had trauma in their lives and my wife tires to help as much as she can.   She met this one guy whose fiance was killed in a car accident weeks before their wedding...  Even though he is a very eligible guy (handsome, nice, good job), he had not found anyone like this woman.  That is until he started chatting with my wife.  He opened his heart up to her.  Unfortuneately with this guy, my wife pretended to be single...  So over the months, he began to fall in love with her and it got to the point a few weeks ago that he was going to fly to the US and see her.  Well needless to say my wife got scared.  She sent him an email that she did not want to see him and that she was married.   Well men being what we are - he exploded and closed their chat.   So a few days go by and my wife got an email from a woman who turned out to be his sister.  She found my wife's email in his diary.  She told my wife that this guy bolted from the house and got into his car and drove the car head long into a wall....................... He survived the accident, chest crushed, in a coma................... Over the past few days, he slowly regained conciousess and in doing so was saying my wifes name....................................... Thank God he is fully concious now - not out of the woods by any means...  Please pray for him. Now we move onto his mother.  His mother was living with him - he cared for her as she is getting older.  Well, the mom in hearing this news had a stroke...  Paralyzed on her right side and cannot speak.  She is at home now...  Please pray for her. And yes all this has been verified thru newspaper accounts and calls to the hospitals. My wife is suffering from extreme guilt in causing all this.  I tell her that this was all meant to be.  That she helped him discover that he can love another.  She want to go home and see him.  That I know will make things worse.  She sees now that she cannot go. Yes my wife has been quiet for months while all this was developed - not paying the usual attention to me.  I knew she was getting attached to folks at her site.  I just am surprised that at her age she would play this dangerous game...   Well things always turn out for the best.  She loves me more now.  She never stops loving me so I do not feel the need to forgive her.   So these are the dangers on the internet when we play people we would like to be.  I am always myself.  I am married.  Happy as I can be coupled with my condition.  I help as many as I can here.  I encourage everyone to do the same too.