D&C confirmed, I'm so scared it means an end to our chances
We'll the 3rd and 4th doses of meds didn't work. Not really suprised, everyone has been telling me that when you MC you don't wonder if it's happend or not. The doc said that my us didn't even show any progress.
I have an other appointment tomorrow with my IF specialist to set the date for my D&C. I just hope she'll be able to refer me to my surgeon that helped correct my Asherman syndrome. I know D&C are routine but with my endometrium problems I'm so scared that this will put an end to any chance I have of having an other baby. After my operation the doc had told me to avoid at all cost a D&C.
What gets to me is that with all my IF problems it was almost impossible for my to reach implantation. My BFP was really amazing because my lining wasn't even at 8mm on transfert day and now... everything is so well implanted that I won't pass anything. How is that even possible !
I thought my TWW was impossible but I don't know how I get through the wait for AF to show. I was so many years with no AF at all it seems impossible that we would be back to this again.
I will be hoping and praying that things go well but I just can't stop crying. I'm terrified ! I don't know what to do. I know I have to stay positive but the only thing that was getting me through the mc was knowing it had worked once and that chances where good it would work again. Now with the D&C it's the worst news I could get and I don't know if my lining will be able to recover.
At this point I'll again need all your prayers. I feel like I keep asking for them I hope I can be there for you gals like you have been for me. At times like this I feel our decision not to tell most of our friends and family is the hardess.
I have an other appointment tomorrow with my IF specialist to set the date for my D&C. I just hope she'll be able to refer me to my surgeon that helped correct my Asherman syndrome. I know D&C are routine but with my endometrium problems I'm so scared that this will put an end to any chance I have of having an other baby. After my operation the doc had told me to avoid at all cost a D&C.
What gets to me is that with all my IF problems it was almost impossible for my to reach implantation. My BFP was really amazing because my lining wasn't even at 8mm on transfert day and now... everything is so well implanted that I won't pass anything. How is that even possible !
I thought my TWW was impossible but I don't know how I get through the wait for AF to show. I was so many years with no AF at all it seems impossible that we would be back to this again.
I will be hoping and praying that things go well but I just can't stop crying. I'm terrified ! I don't know what to do. I know I have to stay positive but the only thing that was getting me through the mc was knowing it had worked once and that chances where good it would work again. Now with the D&C it's the worst news I could get and I don't know if my lining will be able to recover.
At this point I'll again need all your prayers. I feel like I keep asking for them I hope I can be there for you gals like you have been for me. At times like this I feel our decision not to tell most of our friends and family is the hardess.
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Lots of hugs to you!! Can you ask that they don\'t do any scraping? That iDisk what I had done. It\'s called a D&E. I was told the scraping would wreck my endometrium. I hope this all works out! Xoxox
I am so sorry, sweetie. I\'m praying for you!!! Jackie has a good suggestion. I think you\'re right. You got pregnant once, it can happen again. And since the doctors know to be careful, perhaps they can do the D&C the right way for your body. I hope your body starts to react soon and the need for the D&C passes. I\'ll be thinking about you. ((hugs))
I\'m so sorry! Another woman on here had a D&E (evaculation) instead of a D&C....did you doctor mention that as an option? xoxo
I\'ll be taking about my options with my IF specialist tomorrow and will see if a D&E is possible. For now I\'ve only talked to the us doc and he didn\'t mention options he said my doc would.
Praying for you, Roxy!!! (((HUGS)))
I am so sorry Roxy!!! I\'ll be praying that they some way to do the D&C without ruining your future chances at pregnancy. I\'m praying you find some peace too.
I\'m so sorry you are going through all this. Praying for you and hoping everything goes okay.
Whoops, just saw my typo....evacuation! not evaculation!