CRISIS!!--Sure Miss all of YOU!!!
I have been missing talking and sharing with everyone...Things have been crazy here...Mom moved in and for the first two weeks she would cry all day...they had her on some bad medicine whice she was not suppose to have...I got her off that and now she is doing great....she is walking again without her walker...I am starting to give her jobs to do that she can handle...it is going pretty good with mom..
On the other hand...I have only been getting about 2 hours of sleep at might...the last two nights (thank God) I have gotten around 4 or 5....
My sister has really turned on me. .She was the one who also made the decision get mom out of that place as long as she did not have to take care of her...She will not answer her phone...She sent a nasty letter to mom but of course I did not let mom read it...then she has sent me some nasty text....I don't know this side of my sister...but I can not worry about it as I have a heavy plate right now....
My husband is going to counseling...he told his kids to pay us back the money they borrowed..one 9 years ago and his son a few months ago...We got the money back from his daughter, but I am sure she is mad at me...but they treat me horrible anyway so it does not matter...his son was suppose to send something by Friday before last, so far nothing....I just keep asking my husband about it..Of course he gives excues for his son..."forget to get a stamp" etc...Well, he knows how to drive...so anyway my husband is going there on Thursday maybe he will get the check..who knows..
As far as the Nascar, I am still trying to find people..I am still fighting for the fans...if you have a face book...or twitter or anything you can post my e-mail address would be appreciated...whether you know anyone who went or not....The guy next to us on the highway had came from Canada to bring his son..he never got in either...SO NO MATTER..where you live or whether you go to races...Just if you can post that I need the ones who did not get in to see the race to contact me would really help me out...
If you do post something about Nascar...here is what to say.
If you went to the Nascar Kentucky Speedway race, July 9, 2011 and did NOT SEE the race..WANT your money and expenses back..send me an e-mail to jfsf16@roadrunner.com Sandi
Anyway to get the news out would be helpful...
I love and miss you all and hopefully I will be able to get back on regular soon..
Love to you all, Sandi
On the other hand...I have only been getting about 2 hours of sleep at might...the last two nights (thank God) I have gotten around 4 or 5....
My sister has really turned on me. .She was the one who also made the decision get mom out of that place as long as she did not have to take care of her...She will not answer her phone...She sent a nasty letter to mom but of course I did not let mom read it...then she has sent me some nasty text....I don't know this side of my sister...but I can not worry about it as I have a heavy plate right now....
My husband is going to counseling...he told his kids to pay us back the money they borrowed..one 9 years ago and his son a few months ago...We got the money back from his daughter, but I am sure she is mad at me...but they treat me horrible anyway so it does not matter...his son was suppose to send something by Friday before last, so far nothing....I just keep asking my husband about it..Of course he gives excues for his son..."forget to get a stamp" etc...Well, he knows how to drive...so anyway my husband is going there on Thursday maybe he will get the check..who knows..
As far as the Nascar, I am still trying to find people..I am still fighting for the fans...if you have a face book...or twitter or anything you can post my e-mail address would be appreciated...whether you know anyone who went or not....The guy next to us on the highway had came from Canada to bring his son..he never got in either...SO NO MATTER..where you live or whether you go to races...Just if you can post that I need the ones who did not get in to see the race to contact me would really help me out...
If you do post something about Nascar...here is what to say.
If you went to the Nascar Kentucky Speedway race, July 9, 2011 and did NOT SEE the race..WANT your money and expenses back..send me an e-mail to jfsf16@roadrunner.com Sandi
Anyway to get the news out would be helpful...
I love and miss you all and hopefully I will be able to get back on regular soon..
Love to you all, Sandi
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My sister turned against me at one point. It was a very big shock and disappointment to me. But now I think I\'m past it and she\'s locked up in a nursing home due to the way her children mistreated her.
I\'ve decided that I can\'t get involved in her drama, I have more than enough of my own to deal with. It\'s something to consider, we have a lot to deal with and we are in no position to work through family issues with all the stress involved in such things.
But you have my sympathy for sure, nothing gets to you faster than problems with your kinfolk.
Hi Sandy, thanks for the update. SO glad to hear your mom is improving! Family can sure be challenging sometimes huh? Geez! I wish you the very best will all and everyone. Take care, Teri
Are you sure you are writing about your family and not mine??? Only my situationwas with my father... my \'youngest\' sister ( we call her Barbie the bitch) did not want any part of caring for dad but when my other sister and I did, we were now the enemy.. and when I moved him in with me.. OMG..
however, when we had to move him to a nursing facilty she took over finding one tha met her approval !!! Your sister is having guilt, I know becaue that was Barbie\'s problem, even though Gin and I told her it was ok tht she didn\'t/couldn\'t help.
Glad your Mom is doing better, it is good that she is now ambulatory and able to help. it makes her feel useful..
Hugs MaryLou
Hi Sandi, I\'ve missed you. I hope you get more of a chance to be online but I understand how busy you must be with taking care of your Mom and everything else you have going on in your life. I\'m glad she is improving. I agree with MaryLou your sister feels guilty. Avoidance is can be a sign of guilt feelings. Keep us updated and I\'m praying God sends you some contentment and peace in your life, you deserve some goodness. Terry
Keep your chin up! Be proud of what you are doing. I can\'t give much advise on sisters ( I don\'t have one). Remember to save some time of the day for you.
Hugs Penny
Sandy, glad your mom is doing better. You are a good daughter. Much love to you and Ken, Linda