Court Is Looming
Court is Wednesday. I feel in my heart that Kevin will not show up, I so want him to. I don't want to win by default only. Either way, win or lose, it won't make a blind bit of difference to him (or to me monetarily).
I have collected all sorts of evidence. I think I may have even out-smarted ole' Kevy. I have emails in which he agrees that he is to pay the bills. I have bank statements that show that I paid them, as well as most of the other household expenses (in case he tries to say he was paying for everything else).
I have the cancelled check for the $1000 I gave him. It clearly shows that the check was made out to a company that Kevin works for under the table, in case he says he does not work.
I printed out the pics from Facebook with him and his new chic in Key West riding donkeys (an ass on an ass). Doing that really shook me up. Looking into his face, at him with his arm around this woman... I am still shaking. I don't want him back - not one tiny little bit, but it is physically shocking to see this. It's like a dream, as my daughter says. One day he is with me, doting over my two grandchildren, and the next he is sneaking out of my house never to see them again. Are there really people like that out there? It still boggles my mind.
Ah well, I'm ready for court - wherever it takes me afterwards. San
I have collected all sorts of evidence. I think I may have even out-smarted ole' Kevy. I have emails in which he agrees that he is to pay the bills. I have bank statements that show that I paid them, as well as most of the other household expenses (in case he tries to say he was paying for everything else).
I have the cancelled check for the $1000 I gave him. It clearly shows that the check was made out to a company that Kevin works for under the table, in case he says he does not work.
I printed out the pics from Facebook with him and his new chic in Key West riding donkeys (an ass on an ass). Doing that really shook me up. Looking into his face, at him with his arm around this woman... I am still shaking. I don't want him back - not one tiny little bit, but it is physically shocking to see this. It's like a dream, as my daughter says. One day he is with me, doting over my two grandchildren, and the next he is sneaking out of my house never to see them again. Are there really people like that out there? It still boggles my mind.
Ah well, I'm ready for court - wherever it takes me afterwards. San
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Yes they do exist, My STBX is almost the same as you described. It hurts deeply but we deserve better. We will be better even if alone than with men like that. (((Hugs)))
They are there. You are I are living with men cut of the same cloth. And it does boggle the mind. I wish you the best in court. Mine will not be until May. I dread it with a passion. I am getting all my stuff together also.
We deserve better, Sandy..............and i hope and pray all of us find the \'better\'.
Yes there are people like that out there-my x is one of them. He is a cheating liar-still lying about it-
We deserve better, yes we do.