counseling today.
Had a attack on the way tp counseling. I was ok when I got there. It went so so. Not very helpful. The new counselor thinks I need to do something for myself. What? I have no job. I have no money. Yeah right lady! At 50 yrs old no one wants to hire you. And on top of all this, my husb a nd says go out! Yeah ok, were? I have no friends. Cant go anywhere. And I am not driving his truck, too big! I refuse to drive it, and why dose he always park behind my van? I dont think he wants me to go anywhere! Why?
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How about if he takes you somewhere!
Our aniversary is dec 7. He will maybe, maybe take me somewhere, but its probably with the boys with us. I dont mind the boys with us. But he is weird about taking me places. Its like pulling teeth. Its only on his terms. Last time we did something together was in august with a walk along the beach at ceder piont. That was for about a hour. He just isnt like that. I am, very romantic, he just is into the basics. I like flowers. And kissing. We used to be like that for our 1st year, but now , its not like that. Its usually bed by 9 for him. I stay up. Well, it will be 25 years of marriage. Thats a long time.
have you talked about what you need or what you feel your are not getting out of the maridge ....it sounds like he is doing a lot of things that are suggesting things to you with out not acutualay saying ...what he is realy doing or what his motives are ...leaving you to interpret ...what he means ...and that is a dificult path to travel ...for you ...doing somthing for your self doesent mean you have to go out and spend a lot of money ...it just means you need to ...take some time out of your day ..and do somthing that you like to do ...it could be a bubble bath ....if you don\'t have bubble bath ..you can use a little dish soap and ..baby oil .....take time and do your nails ..and not be hiring up .....go for a walk ...even if it is your back yard ....if you have flowers ...just sit and spend time looking at them ..or grow some flowers ...even if it is in pots ....just ....do some things ...that ...make you feel ...calmer ...or better about your self ....I will keep you in my prayers ...take good care of your self ...God bless