corruption at work from the evil steps and former employees//still sad from big
i'll be depressed for a couple of weeks and then big's death will haunt me and i'll keep looking for big, or i'll get passed it. can't tell yet. what i remember when big lost weight last year is i treated him with de-fleaer and the bath which i was setting up to do this time, i had just flea bathed him. i was nervous about giving him de-fleaer because of his light weight. however, the de-fleaer worked last year. he gained more weight. i remember the look of surprise on his face. he felt better. he perked up. i had been afraid the opposite would happen. at least big seemed surprised and perkier. its amazing that hours make a difference with health, even minutes make a difference. emt kind of stuff MATTERS.
we don't always SEE that when an animal is bigger and mobile and seems to be able to get by on its own. the habit is to notice it in newborns, but not in the ones even slightly bigger than that. i was more vigilent several years ago. i was better set up for it on the mainland before the murderer tenants moved into the two units on the back of the house, killing animals, breaking the a/c unit by literally JUMPING on it from a window, stealing, breaking into the main house, poisoning food, drink, stealing animal medications from our kitchen. wth? amazed i went through all of that. hope those tenants are dead and gone themselves now. an eye for an eye. and they both had a lifetime of history being that way, but will never go to jail because they will merely have their meds switched. so much bulshit. if a person is guilty of anything the sentence should be the same for ALL PEOPLE doesn't matter who it is.
discovered today that the asshole former stepbrother and his cousin, todd, were making harrassing calls at my office three years ago, 2009 its in our records and again in 2010 just before and after the former supervisor left! he also had his wife do this. wth? not much of a wife to act like that and ditto at him and his cousin. these people are all over forty, with normal jobs and still like that. broker, dentist, lawyer. hmmm, so what does our government do with stalkers? not enough, that is for sure. those people haven't been family in over 30 years, there is no blood between us and i still have to put up with this. the former step brother wanted the phone numbers for people i know in spain. really, for what? why would they think i'd give them any phone numbers at all or anyone else would? what kind of request is that?
it says our supervisor called the local police. it also says the step and his wife and cousin showed up at my office IN PERSON (these are people our family NEVER ASSOCIATES with and i haven't seen them in 20-30 years! and have no interest at all in seeing them.) would love to know how they have my office address here. i guess the evil step is showing up more often than i thought. and its usually him and his sister - this says its him and his cousin, todd, and his cousin's wife and his own wife. more than one report. the evil step's cousin lives in naples during winter break each year. naples is nowhere near here. so nice to have access to all these records, as a supervisor. discovering all kinds of things in general actually. so the evil step called here and then he had his cousin and his cousin's wife calling here. wth? and for what? that is what i understand the least. have never understood it. its gone on at EVERY SINGLE PLACE i have worked and lived, that they can find out about in my lifetime (more than 30 years even at jobs in the arts as a kid and even at part time teenie-bopper jobs, even school things). i don't even give out info like that. why do stalkers stalk? has anyone done a show on that. and these are people with professional jobs (though that means nothing, just like with college degrees half of the college grads out there are cheats and half of the doctors and lawyers are quacks/cheats so it all means NOTHING anyway. mixed bag everywhere you go. just does more damage when its someone in a profession or management).
then i look through and i discover my former loan processor's wife who was always a terror to begin with (she is a former stripper who became a real estate agent and is a corrupt real estate agent, won't go into all the details yet) showed up here as well trying to make trouble when i was doing loans for individual people in our office complex back when things were busy. turns out our former supervisor recognized my processor's wife from when she was a stripper and he showed up at her house after she started making harrassing phone calls over here. he says he went to her house, to let her know that he recognized her and that he is a former customer of her's. there are a lot of former strippers in north florida (or for all i know everywhere?) i've worked for two brokerages that had one as a receptionist and in this one, my outside processor was married to this former stripper. i also know one who lives with a former race car driver that i know. omg!
the former supervisor claims he wanted to see the last the former stripper gave birth to in 2008 and he wanted her to give that baby up for adoption. the baby boy is very white, and she and her husband are hispanic and dark. the former supervisor who recognized her is white. she thought she could milk money from the former supervisor. not. she also thought she could get real estate work from him and he laughed at her. must be pretty shitty being what she is especially since she didn't lose her underhandedness. her husband is an excellent loan processor, but not with our company anymore. now i know why. he was outside anyway. never here.
and the cherry for today. our new guy can work the friday after thanksgiving. i said fine. he is working out great by the way. he is a single dad. the mother of his daughter is 26 and they were together since highschool on and off. i relate to that. lots of people are on and off. his daughter with her is 3 or 4. he says the mother has her for t-day, which is fine as his own mother is working on t-day and he rather work or chill that day. then he says that the mother of his daughter has THREE other kids by THREE other guys, all of whom will be at the mother's house for thanksgiving and all the kids get along. what? that all three other kids are raised by their individual fathers in different houses. AND that the mother of his daughter had her tubes tied but wants to undo it to have another kid. what? the mother is only 26!
we were discussing junie b books and he says yeah, kids say outrageous things, his daughter has two black friends from school and wishes she was brown. he is blonde and his daughter is white like him but has her mother's features, the mother is from puerto rico. i said what? i can't take more shocks right now. quite a day of revelation.
we don't always SEE that when an animal is bigger and mobile and seems to be able to get by on its own. the habit is to notice it in newborns, but not in the ones even slightly bigger than that. i was more vigilent several years ago. i was better set up for it on the mainland before the murderer tenants moved into the two units on the back of the house, killing animals, breaking the a/c unit by literally JUMPING on it from a window, stealing, breaking into the main house, poisoning food, drink, stealing animal medications from our kitchen. wth? amazed i went through all of that. hope those tenants are dead and gone themselves now. an eye for an eye. and they both had a lifetime of history being that way, but will never go to jail because they will merely have their meds switched. so much bulshit. if a person is guilty of anything the sentence should be the same for ALL PEOPLE doesn't matter who it is.
discovered today that the asshole former stepbrother and his cousin, todd, were making harrassing calls at my office three years ago, 2009 its in our records and again in 2010 just before and after the former supervisor left! he also had his wife do this. wth? not much of a wife to act like that and ditto at him and his cousin. these people are all over forty, with normal jobs and still like that. broker, dentist, lawyer. hmmm, so what does our government do with stalkers? not enough, that is for sure. those people haven't been family in over 30 years, there is no blood between us and i still have to put up with this. the former step brother wanted the phone numbers for people i know in spain. really, for what? why would they think i'd give them any phone numbers at all or anyone else would? what kind of request is that?
it says our supervisor called the local police. it also says the step and his wife and cousin showed up at my office IN PERSON (these are people our family NEVER ASSOCIATES with and i haven't seen them in 20-30 years! and have no interest at all in seeing them.) would love to know how they have my office address here. i guess the evil step is showing up more often than i thought. and its usually him and his sister - this says its him and his cousin, todd, and his cousin's wife and his own wife. more than one report. the evil step's cousin lives in naples during winter break each year. naples is nowhere near here. so nice to have access to all these records, as a supervisor. discovering all kinds of things in general actually. so the evil step called here and then he had his cousin and his cousin's wife calling here. wth? and for what? that is what i understand the least. have never understood it. its gone on at EVERY SINGLE PLACE i have worked and lived, that they can find out about in my lifetime (more than 30 years even at jobs in the arts as a kid and even at part time teenie-bopper jobs, even school things). i don't even give out info like that. why do stalkers stalk? has anyone done a show on that. and these are people with professional jobs (though that means nothing, just like with college degrees half of the college grads out there are cheats and half of the doctors and lawyers are quacks/cheats so it all means NOTHING anyway. mixed bag everywhere you go. just does more damage when its someone in a profession or management).
then i look through and i discover my former loan processor's wife who was always a terror to begin with (she is a former stripper who became a real estate agent and is a corrupt real estate agent, won't go into all the details yet) showed up here as well trying to make trouble when i was doing loans for individual people in our office complex back when things were busy. turns out our former supervisor recognized my processor's wife from when she was a stripper and he showed up at her house after she started making harrassing phone calls over here. he says he went to her house, to let her know that he recognized her and that he is a former customer of her's. there are a lot of former strippers in north florida (or for all i know everywhere?) i've worked for two brokerages that had one as a receptionist and in this one, my outside processor was married to this former stripper. i also know one who lives with a former race car driver that i know. omg!
the former supervisor claims he wanted to see the last the former stripper gave birth to in 2008 and he wanted her to give that baby up for adoption. the baby boy is very white, and she and her husband are hispanic and dark. the former supervisor who recognized her is white. she thought she could milk money from the former supervisor. not. she also thought she could get real estate work from him and he laughed at her. must be pretty shitty being what she is especially since she didn't lose her underhandedness. her husband is an excellent loan processor, but not with our company anymore. now i know why. he was outside anyway. never here.
and the cherry for today. our new guy can work the friday after thanksgiving. i said fine. he is working out great by the way. he is a single dad. the mother of his daughter is 26 and they were together since highschool on and off. i relate to that. lots of people are on and off. his daughter with her is 3 or 4. he says the mother has her for t-day, which is fine as his own mother is working on t-day and he rather work or chill that day. then he says that the mother of his daughter has THREE other kids by THREE other guys, all of whom will be at the mother's house for thanksgiving and all the kids get along. what? that all three other kids are raised by their individual fathers in different houses. AND that the mother of his daughter had her tubes tied but wants to undo it to have another kid. what? the mother is only 26!
we were discussing junie b books and he says yeah, kids say outrageous things, his daughter has two black friends from school and wishes she was brown. he is blonde and his daughter is white like him but has her mother's features, the mother is from puerto rico. i said what? i can't take more shocks right now. quite a day of revelation.
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Wow, you have had a day of revelation, all big news to me too. Why is it we always wish to be someone else. Weird right, we are never satisfied with ourself.
Good news on the new guy, wow these families are something else. But if it works so be it.
Have a great weekend. XXOO
i\'d love to know what to do with the stalkers. when i worked at the big law firm in nyc, all of the above people showed up there as well. and its a LAW FIRM. the cousin\'s wife was his girlfriend at the time and in law school. i had no idea who she was and its a lawfirm with 300 lawyers, she isn\'t good enough to get in there, her school ratings are too low and you don\'t get into a lawfirm of that size by sneaking into the back area and demanding to see the name partner (who was famous by the way) what an asshole by the way. even the guy she was working for was just as jerky. the whole thing was whacko. and then there is always MORE of it from them. what amazed me is that they STILL ACT LIKE THIS and they are in their 40\'s. they are too old to be stalkers and chalking it up to youth. though even mid 20\'s is too old. half the time that this stuff happens the people around me don\'t let me know until years later because they don\'t want to upset me, and they handle it on their own. i appreciate it actually.
but why for soooo many years? i don\'t get it. the mafia way is the better way, at least people are handled. sopranos would never put up with this, they would be whacked.