Coping

I think that being in control requires one to have the ability to analyze life situations from the outside in, rather than the inside out. That process requires an individual to see life events through the lens of a belief system of sort. Otherwise, the control that we think we have is merely a fragile illusion of being in control.
We are actually in control of nothing, yet we are in control of how we perceive and react to life events, based on the principles of one’s thought processes or ones belief system.
So, I am not actually in control, but I am in control of how I process and how I react to events or the inevitable. 
When you are in real control, you'll know it, because you reveal you to yourself.

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