Confusing events
I really struggle to find what to write here. I'm not even sure how I feel - want him back, no I don't, but....
His sister and I have been emailing each other trying to get news of him. She is concerned about him, naturally. I could not tell her anything because he has not been in touch. I don't even know if he's alive. I am sure he is. Hopefully.
The island he retired in in the Philippines had been hit by a massive typhoon with severe damage. We just have no news of him.Admittedly, so I broke the no contact thing. Told him to just let us know if he's safe, or at least tell his sister. I guess he will eventually, either me, his sister or both.
So, here I am sitting in this limbo. I guess it will be a relief next few days if and when we hear from him. Healing wise, I don't know where I am. Maybe half-way? I have not had a nostalgia days in about 2 days.
His sister and I have been emailing each other trying to get news of him. She is concerned about him, naturally. I could not tell her anything because he has not been in touch. I don't even know if he's alive. I am sure he is. Hopefully.
The island he retired in in the Philippines had been hit by a massive typhoon with severe damage. We just have no news of him.Admittedly, so I broke the no contact thing. Told him to just let us know if he's safe, or at least tell his sister. I guess he will eventually, either me, his sister or both.
So, here I am sitting in this limbo. I guess it will be a relief next few days if and when we hear from him. Healing wise, I don't know where I am. Maybe half-way? I have not had a nostalgia days in about 2 days.
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I hope you guys hear something soon. You have been so helpful to me I wish I knew what else to say. My prayers are with you.
Thanks Lonely. Emotionally I don\'t think I\'ll get affected much now either way. I feel for his sister though. He has become really selfish since retiring to the Philippines, don\'t care much about emailing his sister. She used to get news of him from me. But since he stopped emailing me nearly a month now, I can\'t help her. I feel for her though as there\'s only the 2 of them. Thanks again. I hope you are going forward with your recovery. Hugs!