Confused...

My husband I are getting a divorce. I suppose it's a somewhat mutual agreement.  I find myself so conflicted. In my gut, I know this the right thing for all of us. My heart just can't seem to let go. 


Neither one of us cheated. He's never physically abused me. We were still intimate even. We have many fights, & I'm always the first to say divorce, but after a few days we reconcile & things are good for a little while, then eventually return to "normal". This time is very different. We've hardly spoken in almost 2 weeks. We just coexist together. I cry every day. I want to talk to him, or just ask for a hug, but I don't. Will this pain ever go away? Am I really making the right decision?

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mirandac
mirandac

I would go to a therapist for yourself only
And hopefully he will go alone too then
Together for MC when you both are ready.

THat way you do all you can do to save the
Marriage. Divorce sucks and costs lots of
Money and causes nothing but heartache.

If they are checked out thats one thing my
Ex was checked out, nothing worked and he
Was chasing women. Our marriage had turned
Toxic. HUGS