confused
im so confused about how i feel right now, i dont feel bad but i dont feel good and jess keeps asking how i feel and what can i say? what do you tell some one when you truthfuly dont know? i cutt once, a couple weeks ago and its not fully healed yet but i diddnt tell jess about it but i go see the doc agaion and he always wants to see my arms and hes gunna see and prob tell jess then i lose her trust which im not sure if i care that much about. im just really so confused...does any of that make any sence at all?
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Is Jess your counselor? You won\'t lose her trust, she has no doubt known others--like everyone--who just doesn\'t come right out and tell all. If you don\'t know how you feel--just tell her. Or write about how you feel and give it to her when you see her if it\'s too confusing to talk about. It takes a lot of time, a lot of just seemingly doing nothing until one day you\'ll have a \"eureka\" moment when something about your situation will suddenly all become clear--then a lot more of treading water and wondering what you\'re doing there...
Is Jess your counselor? You won\'t lose her trust, she has no doubt known others--like everyone--who just doesn\'t come right out and tell all. If you don\'t know how you feel--just tell her. Or write about how you feel and give it to her when you see her if it\'s too confusing to talk about. It takes a lot of time, a lot of just seemingly doing nothing until one day you\'ll have a \"eureka\" moment when something about your situation will suddenly all become clear--then a lot more of treading water and wondering what you\'re doing there... Emotions are sooo complex...think of it as a huge ball of thread all tangled up, it takes ages to pick out a few strands and know where it\'s coming from and going to. But eventually you\'ll be able to work through most of it and make sense of most of it. Take care...hugs.
Sorry, hit a glitch in the middle...
thanx carol