Confronted Mother
I did it. I confronted my mother with the fact that I am remembering what happened to me as I was growing up.
She thinks that I am making it up so, that I don't have to take care of her anymore.
I wonder if their heads pop off when they admit to themselves that they helped with the abuse?!
I do feel a bit better. I have some guilt and some apprehension about it.
She told my husband that I was lying. WHATEVER !!!
all in all it went like I thought it would. She is in total denial.
I would like to see if her head would pop off !!!! LOL
She thinks that I am making it up so, that I don't have to take care of her anymore.
I wonder if their heads pop off when they admit to themselves that they helped with the abuse?!
I do feel a bit better. I have some guilt and some apprehension about it.
She told my husband that I was lying. WHATEVER !!!
all in all it went like I thought it would. She is in total denial.
I would like to see if her head would pop off !!!! LOL
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My wife told her father over the phone he abused her, and he refuses to acknowledge it. He won\'t deny it but claims he doesn\'t remember. Denial is a very powerful thing. My mother denied her abusive behavior until the day she died. You are lucky. Your mother may never admit it to you, but unless she is a psychopath, it will eat at her. And that\'sall you can do.
I am OK with it eating at her....LOL