Conflicted

I am in a messed up relationship. No it is not physical but it is abusive in other ways.  He talks down to me and always makes me feel like a five year old. I cam't have friends and the two I do have  I can hardly see. If I want to go out witout him I get the third degree. He will call me and ask me where am I and what am I doing and who am I with. He is a Dictator and he controls ecery aspect of my life. I foud a place to move to but he is so deep in my head that I am even questioning that. I really want to make this move but I am confused. I wish I knew what to do. If I wait to much longer I will lose the place.I need some advice. Please Help Me