Coming to terms with permanent bedwetting

This year I turned 28 and like every other year before I continue to have accidents in bed at night. Sometimes only occasionally other times more often but never far away. Having been doing this for so long I know I have to come to terms that it is not going to go away and I will be a bedwetter for the rest of my life. It's a sad reality that has many associated consequences with it. Will I ever find a parntner? Is it going to get worse when I get older? I can't stay at people's houses unless I take a nappy and a bed pad with me.. But I know I need to be brave enough to control the things I can, like whether to be open and honest about it or try to keep it hidden and don't say a word. The problem with the later is that one way or another people always know, which is the only reason I'm considering the alternative. Some adults are understanding and sympathetic but there will always be those that will use it to be nasty to me. We're not supposed to care what they say but other people listen to them and start to think the same thing. I have to do something to get myself out of isolation, I'm sick of being alone all the time. It's not good to be alone, no man is an island.