closure

First of all I have to say I have been waiting for one of those grand jestures from my wife to let me know she is really over the OW and wants to be with me. I requested for her to give me the address of the OW so I could give her my two cents as to the whole affair.My wife rode with me to the OW appt, she couldn't remember the address but knew the way. She was a wreck by the time we got there then wanted to go as fast as we could when I came back to the car. SO yes she knows about it without her showing me I wouldn't know how to get thereI confronted her (the OW)at her appt, knocked at her door, she came out shocked that I knew she lived there. I said hey dude we gotta talk (she is a bull dyke) I told her what she and my wife did wasn't right and if she got close to my wife again I would bring charges against her. I then told her that I needed to see her cell to make sure my wifes number wasn't in there anymore. She showed me all the contacts and it wasn't there. I then said I needed her to delete all text messages that she had saved between them. She with out opening each deleated all outbox all inbox all archived, all multimedia. I then said don't ever have contact with her again or else. I never raised my voice once keeping it monotone, half way through this she was shaking like a leaf. I never got too close or touched her but I know I scared the piss out of her (there were no witnesses). I know she will never contact my wife again.My Wife and I have been fighting so much lately she though that by me seeing the OW I would get aggitated again. I didn't and now she has to deal with her part..I got closure my wife is also writing a letter asking for a transfer to another store. It appears that she really does want to be with me, only time will tell.