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I told my best friend Jay that I am Bisexual. One down, One big one to go. (wife)
He was pleasantly indifferent, "It just isn't important to me, what someones orientation is." It was a major relief! We talked for about 20 minutes and kinda "swept it under the rug". We proceeded to hang out until 4:30 playing MW3 on the Xbox. Back to normal.
Jay seemed more suprized that I joined here than that I "came out". He was proud of me for seeking help 'somewhere'!
He also thinks that my wife will still "love" me, and not "freak out". As long as I don't make a huge deal about it. Lingering fear still, but fading slowly!
I plan to tell her tonight, "make hay while the weather is good', and all.
He was pleasantly indifferent, "It just isn't important to me, what someones orientation is." It was a major relief! We talked for about 20 minutes and kinda "swept it under the rug". We proceeded to hang out until 4:30 playing MW3 on the Xbox. Back to normal.
Jay seemed more suprized that I joined here than that I "came out". He was proud of me for seeking help 'somewhere'!
He also thinks that my wife will still "love" me, and not "freak out". As long as I don't make a huge deal about it. Lingering fear still, but fading slowly!
I plan to tell her tonight, "make hay while the weather is good', and all.
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That\'s awesome :-). Good luck tonight, I am sure it will be fine...
I hope things went well with the with. I am happy you have a freind like jay. No matter what happens at the end you will be happier and people will reach out to you.
Same thing happened to me. My Dad was the only one not to take it so well. We did not talk much for almost 3 days, but then he was back to normal. I felt terrible and guilty for putting him through pain, but it is a process all your loved ones will go through. Some will take it harder than others, but most will love you and applaud your corage. I am really proud of you.