Cleaning up
It is gloomy and sad today and I am definately in a funk. I am off work today, but the weather is awful and it is my son's last day at the amusement park he worked at. Now the fight of making him look for a job starts. It actually started on Friday when I brought it up.
I got on here today in my depressed mood and decided to check on all my friends. Most of them aren't active any more or got on for 2 weeks and then disappeared. I went through and unfriended all the people who haven't been on in 6 months or only had activity for one month and then nothing else. I feel bad about unfriending them, but looking at all the people who I never heard from again was too depressing.
I guess I shouldn't critize as I am not on every day or even every week. I don't post in any of the discussion groups any more, but I do try to read friends journal entries and reply sometimes. Sometimes I just don't know what to say. My thoughts are not positive most days and I hate to just post doom and gloom to someone who is already feeling that way.
I pray for all of us who spend a portion of our lives on here that someday we improve and move forward.
I got on here today in my depressed mood and decided to check on all my friends. Most of them aren't active any more or got on for 2 weeks and then disappeared. I went through and unfriended all the people who haven't been on in 6 months or only had activity for one month and then nothing else. I feel bad about unfriending them, but looking at all the people who I never heard from again was too depressing.
I guess I shouldn't critize as I am not on every day or even every week. I don't post in any of the discussion groups any more, but I do try to read friends journal entries and reply sometimes. Sometimes I just don't know what to say. My thoughts are not positive most days and I hate to just post doom and gloom to someone who is already feeling that way.
I pray for all of us who spend a portion of our lives on here that someday we improve and move forward.
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I am glad to see I\'m still on your friends haven\'t been on in so long because oldest son was in a bad car accident and I\'m his full time caretaker for now I think of you though and hope you feel better soon and your son can find employment quickly. Love and hugs xxxxx
It\'s so sweet of you to check up on your friends even though you are going through a tough time and that\'s a great quality, selfless, supportive, thoughtful, caring, warm hearted
I always knew you were sweet
praying for you xoxo
I am so glad you sent me some sunshine today and am glad to be your friend. I also have days where all I do is struggle not to cry. Missing having my sons around and trying to accept that the family I once enjoyed will never be the same. So goes life. HUGS TO YOU!!!!
happy to see I am still here than ....I unfree dead ..a cupple of people but I hadent heard from them in a year and I still felt bad ...I ..have ..a hard time keeping up with my friends ...I have to maney ...lol ...I also have. no short turm memory ...so I forget ware I left off ..lol ...so if you don\'t here from me just message me ...take. good care of your self ...God bless
I did not unfriend anyone who was still on DS whether they talk to me a lot or not. I only unfriended people who seem to have left the site permanently or were on just a few days and then never again. Anyone who is still on here and needing help and support I have no wish to ever not be around for them.