Cleanse

Theres a poem by a great saint of India
Bura Jo Dekhan Main Chala, Bura Naa Milya KoyeJo Munn Khoja Apnaa, To Mujhse Bura Naa Koye
Translation
I searched for the crooked, met not a single oneWhen searched myself, "I" found the crooked one
 
I understand as a codependent i have been criticizing, blaming and finding faults in others Instead "I" am the one to see my own defects and clean them first.