Christo-centrism
CAUTION: contains anti-religion rant. DS - why are you celebrating Easter? Are there no Jewish members here celebrating Purim? Passover? What's the deal here? Is there some Xtian underpinning I was unaware of? Why have I seen no well-wishing from this site honoring other spiritual traditions? Why have I not seen any acknowlegment of Hindu or Buddhist or Islamic observances? This isn't about being PC, it's about objecting to the oblivious tyranny of the majority - in this case, the majority religion in this culture. It's just a freakin' basket with pastel ovals in it, but it pisses me off. Once again, the religious mainstream gets its moment of acknowledgment and everyone else goes unrecognized. So why is it that many of the Xtians I know are among the first to feel persecuted when this bias gets pointed out to them? A friend of mine is always quick to point out to me that there is the secular holiday and the sacred one, that the two aren't the same, that my baggage doesn't have to be attached to both. No matter, for me the one evokes the other and once again brings up for me all the bullshit I walked away from when I left the church. I resent the reminders. I am angry at the arrogance of "one way" theology and the way it seeps into almost every aspect of public life ASSUMING IT IS WELCOME every where it shows up. It's not that I begrudge anyone a belief in anything that comforts them. What I resent is the favoring of one over all others. Either every single tradition should get its little "happy whatever" icon on the home page, or none of them should. Xtians, both sacred and secular, have quite the party in this culture. As the atheist neighbor who really isn't interested in attending (and who also doesn't eat babies), I am wishing that they would be more considerate of the rest of us and at least keep the noise down.
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I totally agree with you. Here in wonderous multi-cultural Britain we do get signs up at the correct time saying \"Happy Eid\" \"Happy Year of the Monkey\"etc. This does cause a lot of grousing as the Church Of England(founded by an adulterous and murderous King for his own greedy reasons) is the state religion. I will wish everyone a happy anything and happily join in everybodies celebration except Easter as I cant believe in resurrection. Wierd that I can believe in reincarnation but not resurrection!
It\'s more like happy overconsumption of chocolate here than anything else! Do remember though as an athiest you can say \"Happy Humanity\" whenever you please!
also agreed.
the holiday i \"celebrate\" was a couple days ago. you know, the one the Christians base Easter off of? LOL
I wish people a Happy Easter because that is my religion. If my Jewish friends here (I do have some) want to wish me a Happy Passover, I would love it and accept it in the spirit offered. Same with Buddhists or Wiccans or whatever. I don\'t know much about religions outside Judeo/Christian tradition, but am perfectly willing to learn. It won\'t mean the same to me. But.... I do believe in Christ\'s resurection. I hate what some have done to the Christian religion, but I suppose they will have to account for that at some point. It isn\'t for me to judge. I do think instead of \"Happy Easter\" (with it\'s bunnies, eggs and chocolate), Christians should great each other with \"He is risen\" and the response should be \"He is risen indeed\". Just my opinion.
You know, I think I would rather wish Happy Easter to JUST the people who celebrated it... if they would not wish ME one, but maybe something like Hannah suggested - Happy Humanity!
I don\'t want to be included in Xtian holidays. I don\'t celebrate them in either their secular or sacred forms. I have huge unresolved personal issues with them. I think what upsets me is when folks who don\'t know me so well assume that I\'ll feel left out and unloved if they don\'t wish me \"Happy (their holiday)\"
It\'s not my wish to diminish anyone\'s happiness or comfort. It is my wish to raise the awareness that not everyone derives happiness and/or comfort from the same things... and that it is respectful to observe the difference.
So Marah, Happy Easter! Sophie - Happy Passover! Hannah - Happy Humanity!
Now if we could just get DS to do the same.