Choosing to detach...

Today I have made a decision to detach from my fiancé...  Well not from her exactly just from our situation...  I'm going to make myself less available, and just be here when she needs me.  I'm going to talk to her as much as she talks to me, and not any more than that.  No more texting her throughout the night, or calling to wake her up, or anything of that nature. 
I'm also not going to ask her to facetime me anymore.  I mean if she can go without that, then why can't I?  Who cares?  She calls me in the mornings, and she calls me after work, and that really is enough.  I don't want to be a doormat and just be laying there getting walked on.  She can do a little work to move things along, and she can pursue me for a little while, and if she decides not to pursue me, then I guess that means she really didn't care that much to begin with.
I love her, I'll keep working on myself, and we will see how this goes.