Choose

Two weekends ago my oldest son told me he won't go on vacation with us again as his wife does not get along with middle son.   Camping this weekend and middle son says he won't go again if youngest goes.
My family is dying.  They all hate each other and want me to choose one of them over the other.   I just can't do this.  Just can't.  Can't,  Can't  Can't  They are killing me.

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anneccleaver
anneccleaver

Tell them that if they don\'t go on two seperate camping trips you will force them to buy expensive gifts for each other for the holidays and if they don\'t agree to that then tell them you will not allow them to do said thing or be on your will..
autumnleaves50
autumnleaves50

Ugh hope the fighting stops soon.its impossible for you to take sides as their mom.even if you know what\'s causing all the argueing plus u want and need then all and miss them hope things get much better soon hugs. Xxxx
gramybear
gramybear

Children should never make us choose. That is being very selfish. Tell them you will not choose and they should NOT ask you to do so. Lots of hugs honey.
Paulinaakk1
Paulinaakk1

Thank you for the support. A bit of improvement between oldest and middle, but still too much drama.