CELL PHONE ISSUE !!!!!!

I stood up for Myself for the First Time in a LONG WHILE with Ray / my BF Today ! It felt good to tell Him off the Way that I did, but at the same time it WAS NOT good to hear His REPLY to what I had to say ! His Reply hurt Me to the BONE ! He hurt Me as deeply as a KNIFE to MY HEART would have !I think that would have maybe even HURT LESS than hearing His REPLY ! I don't remember HOW We even started talking about it, but somehow while We were playing a Board Game this Afternoon at the Dinning Room Table, We started talking about the Computer - ( and ALL of the ISSUES that go along with it ). Somehow things got around to the FACT that He's given out His Cell Phone to AT LEAST ONE SLUT ONLINE that I KNOW OF, and very possibly MORE ! I told Him that giving out HIS CELL PHONE NUMBER TO SLUTS HE CHATS WITH ONLINE IS NOT OKAY, AND NEVER WILL BE !!!! HIS REPLY was to say... " WHO'S CELL PHONE IS IT ? WHO'S NAME IS IT IN ? ".... AS IF THIS MAKES ONE DAMN BIT OF A DIFFERENCE !!!!!! I told Him... YES, I know it's YOUR CELL PHONE, and in YOUR NAME, BUT THAT'S BESIDE THE POINT... AND THAT DOES NOT MAKE IT " OKAY ", AND IT NEVER WILL !!!!! When He had NO ANSWER... NO REPLY WHATSOEVER to My Statement it HURT ME SO MUCH that I told Him... " OKAY, FINE... THEN YOU'RE MAKING IT CLEAR TO ME THAT YOU DON'T CARE ONE DAMN BIT ABOUT MY FEELINGS ABOUT THIS ! ... IT'S DISREPECTFUL TOWARDS ME, AND HURTS ME DEEPLY ! " HE STILL DID NOT SAY ONE DAMN WORD !!!! HE SAT THERE IN COMPLETE SILENCE ACROSS FROM ME AT THE DINNING ROOM TABLE, AND AFTER A FEW MINUTES OF US JUST SITTING THERE SAYING NOTHING TO EACH OTHER, HE STARTED SETTING UP HIS PIECES ON THE GAME BOARD AS IF NOTHING AT ALL WAS WRONG !!!!! We actually played a Game of Stratego then, though I don't really understand WHY I went through with the Game when I was still FURIOUS with HIM, and VERY HURT EMOTIONALLY BY HIM ! So... NOW WHAT ? I ask You... and I ask MYSELF ??He gave Me NO ANSWER as to WHETHER OR NOT He'll STOP giving His CELL PHONE NUMBER out to ANY, AND ALL, ONLINE SLUTS that He CHATS WITH !!!! I would have asked Him that IF I thought it would have done any good, but from the SILENT TREATMENT that He had given Me, I figured that I'd just get MORE of the same, OR even WORSE He'd end up flying into a RAGE over the issue ! Now... Here I am... wondering what to do NEXT !?!?!?!?I'm glad I let My feelings out, and confronted Him about at least ONE of the MAJOR ISSUES between US, BUT on the OTHER HAND I HATED the REPLY I got !  

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Hang in there hopeful. I doubt he had anything to respond to because for once he KNEW you were right, and he can\'t admit that. Hense the silent treatment. I honestly think you should kick this guy to the curb, but that has to be on your own time and in your own way. You are right - his disrespect hurt you. At least he didn\'t tell you you were overly sensitive.
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When you call a women\'s shelter to talk to them about how to rid yourself of this creep, after you hang up call another number just so this creep doesn\'t redial and find out where you have been calling.