cant believe im here again

Well here i am again,i really thought id found my soulmate.I know it was only 3 months but we seemed so right for each other and ive never been loved like that before.I did keep thinking it was too good to be true and then yes im punched inthe guts yet again and left to pick up the pieces of my life.When am i going to learn not to be so trusting?Im shown a little bit of love and i fall hook line and sinker then i cant get him out of my head...

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hurtinandhealin2560
hurtinandhealin2560

I have taken a six month break from dating. After my last guy dumped me in January (he simply stopped all contact--nothing), I decided that I needed to step back and work on me.

I\'ve read a few of your other journal entries and, honestly, I feel you are not sufficiently healed from the breakup of your marriage. You are believing these things because you are still vulnerable and hurting. It seems you are looking for validation from these men.

Take a break from dating and focus on yourself. Cowgirl Kathi on DS recommends the book \"Date or Soulmate.\" I finally ordered it and am reading it now. It is a really good book and provides lots of insight about learning about yourself. Check it out.

Sending some hugs! It will get better.