Cake and pizza

So, it's about 9:30 am..my area, and I'm sitting here on the bed eating cake, pizza and a coke watching the threads on DS. How nutritious and how sad in a way.  I know I need to get my butt up but I can use a little nap.  Hmmm.  Not sure if I should do that.  I just needed to write something other than I'm sad again crying...  

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deleted_user
deleted_user

L - get up and do something to take your mind off the crying, if for no other reason and hopefully you can nap later. I just found that keeping myself busy or finding things to do kept me (and still does keep me) from bawling all day long.

I am having some struggles with the girls behavior now because of all this but I refuse to let it get me back into a funk over her.
soulman1
soulman1

hey there L. Hope your day has been better since your journal at 9.30. or maybe it was ok then,............however didnt sound like it!!!

I honestly believe that when in times of so called di -stress that i need to do whatever it is that will get me \"up and going\". Not esay in any shape or form. Just now i am not finding it easy. Just going through the motions a litle, however I know that I need to do what is right for me and it will becoem easier. My default setting eventually changes.

Your doing he best you can just now. Keep being Good to yourself
deleted_user
deleted_user

Pass the cake and pizza! Damn girl. You know how to party in the AM!! And YES, if possible, take that nap... take care of you. xoxo
deleted_user
deleted_user

wow....enjoy the comfort food for now.....nap and then.....RAISE SOME HELL....*good hell*
deleted_user
deleted_user

mmmmm cake and pizza! Sounds like a well balanced meal. lol
goodfight
goodfight

I say get out and breath some fresh air. Take the little one down to the park and just enjoy him and you time. Take care!! Pizza sounds good, what you got?
llmt
llmt

One slice of cold plain pizza and cake so full of sugar that you can run for days...mmmm. Feeling a little better...did need a nap after months of not sleeping though. It\'s a beautiful day going out to enjoy it..
deleted_user
deleted_user

Give yourself permission to grieve ... don\'t give yourself a time line for this. Its the only way to get to the next stage, which leads to a better feeling you. Keep writing ... over time, you will notice more good days then bad, and it will accelerate your recovery.

We have all \"watched\" our DS threads for support (it\'s human nature )... we are listening, and here to support you...
deleted_user
deleted_user

Mark7001 put it really good, but I\'ll second it anyways. take care of you first, and don\'t worry about how you \'should\' feel. Just don\'t forget that there will be good days after the bad ones are done with.
deleted_user
deleted_user

Hugs to you and a little pout cause you didn\'t share!