Busy as Usual

I had counseling yesterday and I learned a lot.  My counselor is awesome.  She helps me through so much.  She is helping me discern between the rape back in October and now.  I set a goal and she gave me homework.  We dealt with the fears as well, so I indicated below progress on that.   Goal-  Remove from situation, get help, set boundaries, strong, whole, and closer to the Lord. Homework- 1.  3 things to say yes to giving yourself and the situation                 2.  3 things to say no to giving yourself and the situation                 3.  3 things to say yes to recieving yourself and the situation                4.  3 things to say no to recieving yourself and the situation I am quite stuck on the homework.  Any ideas for any noted above?  Thank you. I thought I was much farther along, but when I did counseling yesterday I cried two times.  I have a long ways to go.  I underestimated myself, and thought I was making progress.  What progress have I made in the past 5 months? Any ideas?  I am so confused.  All I know is that my work is praying for me, and are wonderful. I think I slept for 15 hours on Thursday.  I was so exhausted from work.  I greatly enjoy what I do because I know it is making a difference in the lives of others.  I would love to work there 7 days a week, but that is unrealistic, and I am so glad to be in ministry.  I did great that night and had some funny moments towards the end when I was by myself.  I hope to do that again when that time arises in the future. I will work today through Thursday, so please pray for strength.  I also signed up for a class on April 2nd called, "Poverty and Racism," for work to get extra overtime in.  I love what I am doing, and overtime is wonderful, especially being a poor college student (not like I was, though). Have a great weekend.