Boyfriend smoking
Okay I may sound crazy, ever since highschool I have expressed my opinions on smoking (Mary J), and to this day my feelings haven't changed much. I can't explain it, but it just makes me uncomfortable, and he just makes that part of his personality and seems like the only way he can bond with these people, even with me he can't open up to me without it...Everytimehe's with his dad, cousins, and friiends that's all he does.. and comes into my home where my mother is with it and such. It isn't for medical reasons, it's "just because it's the weekend" or some other reason like that. With recent covid and other health realtons with my mothers lungs and his sister having asthma it's a bit disheartening...I have even distanced myself from former friends due to this also. IAm I wrong?
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You are the only one who can answer this question.
I know, I walked away from the crowd of acquaintances when it became obvious that this was the connection.
I do not miss them and it sounds like you are looking for something that fits you and your healthier lifestyle better.
I wouldn't say anything to him, just go out and meet different people, doing different things. You'll be clear headed and calm and not smelling the 'weed' all the time.