Boundaries are working well

DH still sleeping in guest room.  Again, his choice, not mine.  But we're able to talk & converse as normal.  For all I know, he could be "plotting" something, but really, there isn't much he can do that he actually dares to do. On another note, my sister made a comment on my FB wall, regarding my decision to stay home from an hour-away party due to the threat of bad weather (there was actually a weather advisory).  In it, she said "stupid".  So I deleted her comment.  Name-calling is not allowed on my wall! Mentally, I feel more "free to be me" and in control now that I've compartmentalized my boundaries.  Last nite in my written journal, I wrote that my feelings are my own & others' feelings are their own, and we can both have them.  How liberating!