I've recently started rereading a book called "Boundaries" it is very informative and insightful. It has Bible based information but one can take what you feel is important and leave what you don't feel relates to you. I can relate to quite a bit lately. And I am hoping I can put it to day to day use. I know it will be a slow process but I'm willing to try. I'm tried of living for someone else and especially when I can't trust that someone. I have to put my foot down and go on with my life. There are a lot of words to live up to, however I need to start somewhere.  Oh, the authors of the book are Dr.'s Cloud and Townsend. I also have the workbook and am reading it as I read the reader. Wow, that's a lot of reading.... anyway, feel free to look it up or the authors, there more Titles other than "Boundaries". I better get back to my house work and then on to the reading. I hope to get a lot read before I have to go back to work and start my classes for the fall at UNM. Take care everyone, Sandra