Borders

What are my borders?
As much as i know i think i walked past beyond all the borderlines i have put forth.
I understand this has happened because i believed in Karma and just went with the flow. I think i am one of those who would jump into Tsunamis knowing it kills you in the name of love or relationship i so admire :-)
Not anymore. As i sit and learn about borderlines I have set my borders and anything and anyone who pushes are sweet talks me to cross it need to understand that i am working on Betterment  of me program and i don't think i can cross my borderline drawn by me even though its tempting.
I am putting myself first for betterment of me.