I got slammed in the face today with grief from Vincent's death... I had no idea the pain was still in there... It was quiet for some time... Not anymore...
I\'m sorry you were affected by the loss of Vincent again. I think this is fairly normal to have it hit you when you least expect it. I don\'t think we ever fully recover from such a loss.
You are in my thoughts. xx
So sorry your having a hard day,it\'s funny how we can go a while feeling kind of ok and think we\'re turning a corner....then BAM it all just creeps up and hits you again.I felt like that all of last week and through the weekend.Just thinking of it all freshly again,what happened,that hes really gone and the way things went and just thinking he should be still here.I don\'t think the pain will ever really leave,it will always be in there,maybe we just bury it so hard that eventually it doesn\'t come back so hard.I do be scared i\'ll forget him but then i think,no not thinking of him all the time doesn\'t mean i will forget him,it\'s all in there somewhere,surpressed and 1 little trigger can make it all come come back full force.i hope tomorrow you can wake up feeling a little better.remember your not alone,i can totally relate to getting slammed in the face,the pain is crippling sometimes and it is early days in your grief so as they say it\'s going to take time....i used to hate people saying that to me but it\'s the one thing you can count on,time really does heal,it can be painfully slow though.I hope you can visit Vincents\'s grave soon without it tearing you apart,and maybe have a little chat with him and go away with a smile.big hugs xx
This happens. It happened to me today. I found out my upper right canine, which has a crown, has a split root and needs to be extracted. I will need an implant because this is a front tooth. I was sitting in the oral surgeon\'s office crying my heart out. Kind man that he is, he knows about my kid and he was so careful and loving toward me. Sometimes anything can bring the horror back. I feel it now. This too shall pass, friend.
Wow... It completely blew me away... I was absolutely hysterical... Completely out of my wits... Whew! That was terrible... I dread the moment it happens again...
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I\'m sorry you were affected by the loss of Vincent again. I think this is fairly normal to have it hit you when you least expect it. I don\'t think we ever fully recover from such a loss.
You are in my thoughts. xx
So sorry your having a hard day,it\'s funny how we can go a while feeling kind of ok and think we\'re turning a corner....then BAM it all just creeps up and hits you again.I felt like that all of last week and through the weekend.Just thinking of it all freshly again,what happened,that hes really gone and the way things went and just thinking he should be still here.I don\'t think the pain will ever really leave,it will always be in there,maybe we just bury it so hard that eventually it doesn\'t come back so hard.I do be scared i\'ll forget him but then i think,no not thinking of him all the time doesn\'t mean i will forget him,it\'s all in there somewhere,surpressed and 1 little trigger can make it all come come back full force.i hope tomorrow you can wake up feeling a little better.remember your not alone,i can totally relate to getting slammed in the face,the pain is crippling sometimes and it is early days in your grief so as they say it\'s going to take time....i used to hate people saying that to me but it\'s the one thing you can count on,time really does heal,it can be painfully slow though.I hope you can visit Vincents\'s grave soon without it tearing you apart,and maybe have a little chat with him and go away with a smile.big hugs xx
This happens. It happened to me today. I found out my upper right canine, which has a crown, has a split root and needs to be extracted. I will need an implant because this is a front tooth. I was sitting in the oral surgeon\'s office crying my heart out. Kind man that he is, he knows about my kid and he was so careful and loving toward me. Sometimes anything can bring the horror back. I feel it now. This too shall pass, friend.
Wow... It completely blew me away... I was absolutely hysterical... Completely out of my wits... Whew! That was terrible... I dread the moment it happens again...