Bitch at me....
yesterday i went to my parents for a party for me and my children and grands. Andrea didn't show up which was great, yet today she sent her son down to my apartment to give me the letter his mom had no desire to bring it to me personally. it was quite a bashing and showed no respect to me at all. it has my bi-polar so confused. i guess i am still in shock from the things she accused me of. i am super depressed about it. i can't talk to my counselor this week because he is on vacation so i will have to go another week with this letter weighing on my shoulders.
i'm not using my bi-polar as an excuse but she doesn't understand how i react when called a adult tattling on her chidren (i said the kids were jumping from the cair to the love sac.) therefore i must have been talking about her kids of 2 with 4 being there and she didn't see who i was talking about. then there is a part how she is hispanic and i would have liked it better if my son had married an all-american blond hair blue eye girl.
i have sister-in-laws that are from china tongan and from tialand. so what is her problem. i never said i wished he had married that way.
then she says that i only think of myself hurting others. i just don't get it...i WOULD give the shirt off of my back if they needed it. i only think of myself watching 3 grand kids about 60 hours a week. i really wish my therapist was available i need to talk. i need someone to read this letter and help me understand where she is coming from. oh help...next week is too long especially with my sleeping problems.
hugs to all from a depressed girl
i'm not using my bi-polar as an excuse but she doesn't understand how i react when called a adult tattling on her chidren (i said the kids were jumping from the cair to the love sac.) therefore i must have been talking about her kids of 2 with 4 being there and she didn't see who i was talking about. then there is a part how she is hispanic and i would have liked it better if my son had married an all-american blond hair blue eye girl.
i have sister-in-laws that are from china tongan and from tialand. so what is her problem. i never said i wished he had married that way.
then she says that i only think of myself hurting others. i just don't get it...i WOULD give the shirt off of my back if they needed it. i only think of myself watching 3 grand kids about 60 hours a week. i really wish my therapist was available i need to talk. i need someone to read this letter and help me understand where she is coming from. oh help...next week is too long especially with my sleeping problems.
hugs to all from a depressed girl
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You are in a tight squeeze there, for now. However, you really need to let her \"judgements\" of you go! It is simply not worth it! You know the truth, no one else has this letter and no one else will know unless she tells them (which would just be a confession overall in the long run). You need to think about the source and what her problems are! You will see that this person has some deep problems yet to be solved. Let this go! It is not worth it to be upset about this simple series of untruths that will go nowhere. Hugs and love. Neesie