Birthday Wishes..

Tomorrow being the 15th of March, my little Jordan was born 15 years ago.She is my 4th grandchild. I even got to name her. My hopes for her and this name she carry, was that she have the power of a man. She came in this life with a young mother and father. Her father is my son Scott. He on the other hand is a troubled soul. At the time of her birth he was serving time at a correction center, he was 17, and had to have permission for even being there. He didnt change much through the years and has served 10 years in prision . He has been out now for 1 1/2 years. Been a roll model in his soceity, and he's got it all figured out!! RIGHT!!..in the meanwhile there's ME. My promise to my son was" that I take care of his family while him being down". I did that. When he got out I got him everything he needed to get started.. My parenting never faultered, I was always there for him and his family. Well it only lasted about 8 months and Scott started gettiing out of control about material things, car, house, and then their was no $$ for mom getting repaid for 10 years..it was'nt that I threw it in his face,but only reminded him about being responsible for the one's that have been by him. It was only when the gf of 17 years be-friended me on fb and the fight was on. I havent heard from my jorrdy in 8 months and this is the first birthday ever I am not able to wish her a happy b-day. Just troubled over what she may think. Whats being said to her about her grandma.. this is so wrong that my children have done this to me. Why ?? over money..the root of all evil. Any suggestions. ?