Big fight!
Every once in awhile I get some words from someone which happen to come at the right time. I get alot of junk email but felt like opening this particular one and I don't know why but thought I would share it with you.
Find Out=========These walls were not built to shut out problems.You have to face them.You have to find what you were meant to do. ~from the movie, The Sound of Music~
Had a big fight with the wife today in front of the bf. Normally, I would have backed down but this time I didn't thanks to all the support you guys have been giving me.
She started out by nit picking at me for a bunch of unimportant things that shouldn't even concern her, then I couldn't hold back. I exploded! I got alot off my mind and am glad that I did. I feel much better now.
She couldn't face the truth, ended up leaving and then her bf and I had a long talk. Found out she was next door talking to the neighbors. Bf went after her and I took the dog for a long walk. When I got back home, it was a completely different atmosphere. I was treated quite well and with much more respect and I actually like the bf now and am glad wifey has someone to take care of her so I won't have to cater to her anymore. :)
Life is good!
Find Out=========These walls were not built to shut out problems.You have to face them.You have to find what you were meant to do. ~from the movie, The Sound of Music~
Had a big fight with the wife today in front of the bf. Normally, I would have backed down but this time I didn't thanks to all the support you guys have been giving me.
She started out by nit picking at me for a bunch of unimportant things that shouldn't even concern her, then I couldn't hold back. I exploded! I got alot off my mind and am glad that I did. I feel much better now.
She couldn't face the truth, ended up leaving and then her bf and I had a long talk. Found out she was next door talking to the neighbors. Bf went after her and I took the dog for a long walk. When I got back home, it was a completely different atmosphere. I was treated quite well and with much more respect and I actually like the bf now and am glad wifey has someone to take care of her so I won't have to cater to her anymore. :)
Life is good!
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KUDOS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thankyou Nora :)
Good for you Bob :)
Imagine if it could be a win-win-win situation.
Keeping an open mind may just be the saving of this situation. That means listening to and saying the truth freely, maybe.
Reading your journal is like a rivetting drama series. I appreciate you taking the time to keep your (many) friends involved.
Stay excellent!
love
dinah xxx
Bob, have not been on the site for a while, since i kicked the pills. You always had words of encouragement for me and I just wanted to let you know that you will be in my prayers and hope that you will be guided to make all the right decision in the coming months. Thanks for the help and advice in the past. You were a big help in my recovery and you should know that with all the stuff that is going on with you that Im sure I\'m not the only person helped by you kindness.
OK Mr. \"NO\" confrontation : ) It\'s about fucking time! : )
Confrontation doesn\'t need to be all negative! Lessons are learned every day! xoxo
I am so glad that the blow up cleared the air! I had to smile when you said you even like the BF. I had thought this might be the way it would turn out when you told us he was coming to live with you. He might just be the person to help you in the end to calmly end it all. BUT remember he sleeps with the enemy! BEWARE!
You guys are my rocks, upon which I will build my independance! :)
Good for you Bob. Keep sticking up for yourself - you deserve it!