Best friend found out.
We had friends over for the superbowl and my best friend was their and she is really the only one that knows about my past history with all my miscarriages. I did not tell her about being pregnant again just because I didn't want to have to tell her I miscarried again. She has always been very supportive about everything and has always been there when they did happen but this time my husband and I decided not to tell a single soul until we were into our 2nd trimester. (if were lucking enough to get their) But our freinds had brought over beer and wine for the party and she was like here I got you a glass of wine. And I guess she could tell just by the look on my face because I told her no I wasn't going to drink tonight. Well, of course she pulled me to the side and asked... Are you pregnant? I don't lie good to begin with but i'm even worse when it comes to her because she know's me so well. So I told her yes. But she needed to promise she would tell anyone. I told my husband what happened and he went threw the roof! I apoligized to him but explained that I was pretty much backed into a corner and she would of know if I was lieing. So He pretty much said I jinxed it. I was very upset because in a way I feel the same way. I know you really can't jinx anything but we are very cautious about everthing right now.
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I know how you feel... pretty much the same with me I held off telling people and the minute someone found out I could not enjoy the congrats because it had felt that I had put a jinx on it! But I am 26 wks now and soon you will get to that 2nd trimester!!!
I understand... we were very hesitant to tell people. We only told our immediate family and very close friends until after the first trimester, and it was mainly because I knew I couldn\'t hide anything from them. I was so superstitious about it, but I\'m 41 weeks now, so it wasn\'t jinxed after all. I know you will make it!
I know exactly how you feel, but at the same time, you know you cannot jinx it. I actually think that my best friend would have been more mad if I did not tell her. I think it is good that you have someone other than your DH to talk to about it. You want to be excited but are cautious and she is someone who would understand that. I am sure DH will calm down about it. I am still praying all goes well for you! Take care!
Telling people is not going to jinx anything but my dh was superstitious for a while but I explained to him that I wanted to tell people that would be there for me if something happened. Also explain to him that you don\'t need stress a d to let it go. Hugs!!