BEING THE VICTIM OF BULLYING CAUSES permanent health problems, stroke and cancer
THE TRAUMATIC EXPERIENCE of being the target of a bully. I'm going through this right now and I see this alllll the time with people who try to rescue animals being bullied by people in the public, or neighbors who loathe animals - its true bullying if they are hiring and recruiting people to go after you. totally amazes me every time i see something like this.
when you are young, its like, really? okay, lets fight. but when you are older and have health issues, its like, is this worth dying for....hmmmm....what is another way. waiting it out. keeping a vendetta list, is another way. its not as easy to get in between a victim of bullying and a bullier, when you are older and more "frail" yourself. i can think back to just ten years ago when it was almost fun to fight off bullies. we'd look at each other (those of us on the side of the underdog) and were like, wow, a cause. what do you prefer dualing pistols or swords?
What is the bottom of the barrel is a "rescue group" who is actually only in it for the money and lives off of the money they collect as "donations", targeting and bullying ordinary backyard rescuers because they view the backyard rescuer and what they have rescued as product that could be sold by them.
Rescue groups who "bully" always have their hand out begging for donations and no real job. pathetic and disgusting. equally bad, are the poisoners...people who kill animals via trap or poison - this is especially bad if they have anyone in uniform helping them do this. then you have an all out war from it.
Being picked on or harassed is a pretty traumatic experience. And it’s no surprise research shows that people who are bullied have higher rates of stroke, cancer, heart attack, depression and anxiety - so bullying is actually a form of murder.
Children are also bullied as are animals and old people, anything smaller or weaker or different in any way. When adults are bullied they call it "abuse". Abuse and bullying are the same thing.
A new study puts the damage of bullying in perspective in an alarming new way. People who are taunted or excluded suffer more long-term physical illness and earlier death. Children who are bullied by other children, including sibling bullying by younger or older siblings (and sometimes this goes on PERMANENTLY if the "family" isn't wise enough to view themselves as dysfunctional and physically move away from each other while also ceasing all communication with each other (blood, water, its all the same, unless you need their organs for something, you really don't need them. moreover, providing an organ for a family member doesn't mean they will change or improve. i know someone who donated a KIDNEY to her brother, who then STIFFED her for coverage of the medical bills and never helped her while she was recuperating. he owes her about $50,000 to this day with no intention of ever paying it. though he pays TWO NANNIES for his children and owns several homes for his own use. who the hell acts like that. he lives in massachusetts and yes, i'm writing that on purpose.) Children who are systematically bullied by other children have more physical ailments PERMANENTLY than children who were abused by grown-ups.
Adults who were bullied in childhood by other children, were approximately five times more likely to have constant illness - mental or physical, compared to kids who were emotionally, physically, or sexually abused or neglected by adults when they were young.
Bullying survivors were also more likely to contemplate suicide and take on self-harming behaviors
“It might be a surprise that bullying has such a strong effect, but for children, fitting in with whoever or whatever they view as their peers is extremely important. As during childhood you are learning your social skills, which you will keep with you (or not) for the rest of your life."
“Kids want to be accepted and be a part of whatever or whoever they view as their peer group. Being excluded, (which is bullying), beat up, humiliated, maligned or singled out in any way (good or bad as having too high standards for a child, is also a form of bullying) is very difficult and permanently damaging (which the bully already knows and is why they are doing it. Life is a war and they are trying to weaken the opponent in their barbaric, retarded, caveman mind).
Bullying is defined as repetitive aggressive maligning or physical assault; or any physical or verbal abuse from another person or group of people. Being socially excluded also qualifies as bullying behavior. “It’s important to distinguish repeated and PLANNED or systematic bullying from a one-time event or conflict.
“The study should serve as a wake-up call that bullying has major consequences. It can affect the way a person thinks about themself, other people, and the world in general, and those perceptions will alter EVERYTHING they do and don't do, both for the bullier and the one(s) being bullied.
Bullying has been in the spotlight lately, and bullies are being "policed", schools are now teaching children about the consequences from singling out or excluding others, compared to the past where "good behavior" and the importance of HELPING (not hindering) other living things, was only taught at church(s) and/or scouting groups.
Unfortunately, many adults still view taunts and harassment as part of life. The effects of bullying are too harmful to leave to school districts to correct, especially now that cyberbullying makes it a 24-hour problem. Governments have become more involved in anti-bullying efforts and sharing information on stopping bullying. People who USE government agencies and the court as a MEANS to bully are doing jailtime and are fined.
when you are young, its like, really? okay, lets fight. but when you are older and have health issues, its like, is this worth dying for....hmmmm....what is another way. waiting it out. keeping a vendetta list, is another way. its not as easy to get in between a victim of bullying and a bullier, when you are older and more "frail" yourself. i can think back to just ten years ago when it was almost fun to fight off bullies. we'd look at each other (those of us on the side of the underdog) and were like, wow, a cause. what do you prefer dualing pistols or swords?
What is the bottom of the barrel is a "rescue group" who is actually only in it for the money and lives off of the money they collect as "donations", targeting and bullying ordinary backyard rescuers because they view the backyard rescuer and what they have rescued as product that could be sold by them.
Rescue groups who "bully" always have their hand out begging for donations and no real job. pathetic and disgusting. equally bad, are the poisoners...people who kill animals via trap or poison - this is especially bad if they have anyone in uniform helping them do this. then you have an all out war from it.
Being picked on or harassed is a pretty traumatic experience. And it’s no surprise research shows that people who are bullied have higher rates of stroke, cancer, heart attack, depression and anxiety - so bullying is actually a form of murder.
Children are also bullied as are animals and old people, anything smaller or weaker or different in any way. When adults are bullied they call it "abuse". Abuse and bullying are the same thing.
A new study puts the damage of bullying in perspective in an alarming new way. People who are taunted or excluded suffer more long-term physical illness and earlier death. Children who are bullied by other children, including sibling bullying by younger or older siblings (and sometimes this goes on PERMANENTLY if the "family" isn't wise enough to view themselves as dysfunctional and physically move away from each other while also ceasing all communication with each other (blood, water, its all the same, unless you need their organs for something, you really don't need them. moreover, providing an organ for a family member doesn't mean they will change or improve. i know someone who donated a KIDNEY to her brother, who then STIFFED her for coverage of the medical bills and never helped her while she was recuperating. he owes her about $50,000 to this day with no intention of ever paying it. though he pays TWO NANNIES for his children and owns several homes for his own use. who the hell acts like that. he lives in massachusetts and yes, i'm writing that on purpose.) Children who are systematically bullied by other children have more physical ailments PERMANENTLY than children who were abused by grown-ups.
Adults who were bullied in childhood by other children, were approximately five times more likely to have constant illness - mental or physical, compared to kids who were emotionally, physically, or sexually abused or neglected by adults when they were young.
Bullying survivors were also more likely to contemplate suicide and take on self-harming behaviors
“It might be a surprise that bullying has such a strong effect, but for children, fitting in with whoever or whatever they view as their peers is extremely important. As during childhood you are learning your social skills, which you will keep with you (or not) for the rest of your life."
“Kids want to be accepted and be a part of whatever or whoever they view as their peer group. Being excluded, (which is bullying), beat up, humiliated, maligned or singled out in any way (good or bad as having too high standards for a child, is also a form of bullying) is very difficult and permanently damaging (which the bully already knows and is why they are doing it. Life is a war and they are trying to weaken the opponent in their barbaric, retarded, caveman mind).
Bullying is defined as repetitive aggressive maligning or physical assault; or any physical or verbal abuse from another person or group of people. Being socially excluded also qualifies as bullying behavior. “It’s important to distinguish repeated and PLANNED or systematic bullying from a one-time event or conflict.
“The study should serve as a wake-up call that bullying has major consequences. It can affect the way a person thinks about themself, other people, and the world in general, and those perceptions will alter EVERYTHING they do and don't do, both for the bullier and the one(s) being bullied.
Bullying has been in the spotlight lately, and bullies are being "policed", schools are now teaching children about the consequences from singling out or excluding others, compared to the past where "good behavior" and the importance of HELPING (not hindering) other living things, was only taught at church(s) and/or scouting groups.
Unfortunately, many adults still view taunts and harassment as part of life. The effects of bullying are too harmful to leave to school districts to correct, especially now that cyberbullying makes it a 24-hour problem. Governments have become more involved in anti-bullying efforts and sharing information on stopping bullying. People who USE government agencies and the court as a MEANS to bully are doing jailtime and are fined.
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I am soooo, sooo sorry about that!
thanks carly. me too.