Being cut out of someone's life
Let me put it plainly. It sucks to realize someone you should be having a relationship with doesn't want to have a relationship with you. I am talking about my nephew. I have a VERY small family consisting of my brother, my nephew (I also have a cousin who lives in CT but I don't hear much from him either)
my brother ruined my relationship with him cause he abused me emotionally, I lived with him for 8 years because i had no where else to go and he 'borrowed' money from me for years and never paid me back. I visited him in FL (where he moved after we went our separate ways) and I felt the same way I did when we lived together. I didn't trust him.
I admit that I didn't do what I should have done to be close to my nephew. we were estranged for a bit, then we got back together when I joined Facebook and started playing farmville. I reached out to him and I was hoping we'd get back together. He lives in NY and I'm in VA. and he came and stayed with me twice.
He's been down here on and off over the years. And I was able to see him last year, I met his boyfriend, when he came for the cherry blossom festival.
I was on FB last night and just happened to see he posted he was going to be here this coming weekend. he didn't say a word to me personally and it hurts. I already know he doesn't want me in his life or doesn't care if I am or not. And it hurts. I already feel like I don't care if I live anymore. this just adds to that feeling
my brother ruined my relationship with him cause he abused me emotionally, I lived with him for 8 years because i had no where else to go and he 'borrowed' money from me for years and never paid me back. I visited him in FL (where he moved after we went our separate ways) and I felt the same way I did when we lived together. I didn't trust him.
I admit that I didn't do what I should have done to be close to my nephew. we were estranged for a bit, then we got back together when I joined Facebook and started playing farmville. I reached out to him and I was hoping we'd get back together. He lives in NY and I'm in VA. and he came and stayed with me twice.
He's been down here on and off over the years. And I was able to see him last year, I met his boyfriend, when he came for the cherry blossom festival.
I was on FB last night and just happened to see he posted he was going to be here this coming weekend. he didn't say a word to me personally and it hurts. I already know he doesn't want me in his life or doesn't care if I am or not. And it hurts. I already feel like I don't care if I live anymore. this just adds to that feeling
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Dear Lily, *hugs* i\'m sorry, you are feeling hurt, and experiencing emotional pain. i understand friend. You aren\'t alone. i know how much it hurts, and causes our hearts lots of severe pain, when someone we care about, suddenly breaks our hearts, and cuts us, out of their lives. it\'s one of the worst, heart sinking feelings. i\'m keeping you in my prayers. i will hope, for healing, and that you and your nephew, can talk things out, and have a friendship shared. i know how much, this means to you. i\'m going through a breakup right now, but want you to know, i\'m here if you need too talk.