Been feeling down

I wish that I could be more upbeat these days.  But it's been a hard beginning to this year.    I got news a few days ago that my nephew's mother passed away.  I was never close with her but I do feel bad that he lost her.  He is 24 years old.  My brother, his father, is there with him.  And he has a boyfriend who is in his life.   I wish I could be there but I just can't.   I haven't been close to him and while other people have close families I do not.   And I can't make my feelings of distrust and being used and abused for so many years go away.  
I have to do what I feel is best for me without feeling bad what others may think
 

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Chris198I
Chris198I

Hi Linda, thinking of you, our dear friend, and wishing you much peacefulness. i\'m so sorry, and sad to hear that your nephew\'s mom passed away. i know it\'s an emotional time. You keeping your nephew in your prayers, is a comforting blessing. We\'re here for you friend, and i\'m proud of you taking good care of yourself, and you have much to look forward too. new season, spring, brings new hope. we\'re thankful for your friendship, and want to help comfort you, through these hard times. comforting friendship hugs.
positiveoutcome
positiveoutcome

So sorry Lilly for these bad news. Blessings and comforting hugs for you. :)
annieheart
annieheart

Sending your CONDOLENCES is proper enough. It sounds as if he has a good support system. Really not much you can do.losing a mom at 24 is tough.
mycat
mycat

Sorry 2 hear that Lily.Lots of Prayers