Becoming Selfish...
I never did like that word and I was taught to do for others. But as my life, outlook and health are improving, I am finally trying to work my way toward that contentment and happiness so many others do grasp. Yesterday he was told he should not be driving (at least for the next few weeks. I feel badly but am so tired of another crisis and the expectation of me to do what I can to make his life bareable and easier while at my expense. That guilt did creep up a smidge, but then I thought about how great I have been feeling (Knowing that I DO have the power to change things... both physically and emotionally.) As I continue, it is evident to me that after way too many years, it is OK for me to be a bit selfish.
I was going to ask for opinions, but it occurs to me... I know what I want and need to do. I thank you all for all the support and standing by me to reach this point
Kim
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No! It's not being selfish, You have to take care of YOU first, before you can take care of another! You have to put yourself first ALWAYS!
Thank you. :)
you need to dump the butt hole guy.....you get the divorce and say so long buster....then never contact him again and do not take his calls....
Your not selfish. You have needs like anybody else.you need to be able to take care of your self and to be able to do certain things you like for your self.like go out with a friend or a close family member
I agree with billy.
I am not to be called billy......stop.....
Bob is right. You have to take care of yourself first before you take care of someone else.
Like to love another, you have to love yourself first.
Yes!