back to reality

T-Man was suppose to report to his probation officer today but decided to sleep in.  He has a misdemeanor charge and was put in the first offenders program that means attending an drug education class, reporting to a probation officer, staying clean, and doing community service hours in order to get this 1st adult offense off of his record.  
Haven't had to deal with the tough love thing in awhile because I was tired to trying to do more without the support of my husband.  And because I haven't had to deal with our son "breaking the rules" I just been going about my merry way.  Today I had to face the fact I cannot enable him by "nagging or threatening" him and it was harder than I thought.