back to despair and defeat

Today, once more, i am so lonely and left-out...i have my college assignment pending for Wednesday and my friends have already done most of it while I was forced to spend a week-end at the beach. It is no rest time, the holidays are over i know, but my parents especially my dad cannot see our work before his joy..i have to say it like this..
He makes me hate him. One, I told him i have an assignment to return but still we returned home late. It is not that he does not care, at the end he will be the first one to scold me about my poor results. And now, he is making me enjoying while i need to work. I have made my mind this year to succeed in everything and he is just not letting me focus on what i should do.
When there were holidays, there were little outings and now, when it is work time, we are partying.
What is this? He makes me despise him even more with his actions...i don't really know how to handle my dad, i don't like him for sure...
one way that i have tried is that not talking to him..i have tried this for a year though, i guess i should maintain this for this year as well, at least he will boss over me less..
anyway, whatever i want to do and will do, it will be governed by him, i have no say in any big decisions of my life so i guess that not talking and not listening to him anymore might bring some change from my previous life :( 
and one again today i cried...