Back at it again.

Back in 2012 I dealt with my husband cheating on me. he moved out only to return after a few weeks. Our marriage was never the same. I did have insecurities and payed the price for it. I think he wanted me to forget and forgive and not talk about the damage done. Well I am sad to say we are separated now once again and he's planning on filing for divorce. He told me that he fell out of live with me 4 or 5 years ago and finds me not attractive. But then he will say, you are a great mom and a great wife. Who says that to the person they are divorcing?