Avoidance
Can I really avoid the issue with this famiily forever?
Cause eventually this downsyndrome guy is going to pass away (Don't mean to be morbid, or whatever, And I do not wish pain on anyone) And we probably will be invited to the funeral. I just do not know what to say IF confronted about this video, Them wondering why I haven't done it, Not going to, But what if?? I Just pray: Maybey my friend forgot, I hope she did.
Can't beleive something so insegnifagent, Like a making a guitar video would cause so much trama/Anxiety.
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I don't know the details of your situation, but I hope that everything works out OK.
Not going to make any assumptions. Keep sorting through the details and choosing what works to bring you to a better balance.
First, making a video takes determination, effort, and courage. Especially for someone who provides a significant challenge towards your own well-being.
You' are not alone in this.
Thank You mid. Ladybug. It's a long story
Avoidance is seen as this terrible thing, but it’s protection- never be afraid of protecting yourself. And, when I’m considering confronting something, I think about the most likely outcome. Is the person going to learn/ change? Then, yes. Am I going to be sorely disappointed by their reaction? If yes, then maybe write a letter and set it on fire, scream into the wild or something else to release the pain, without hurting yourself anymore. What do YOU want to do?
I don't know, pAart of says forgive, and try to help them (cause, I think they do need help, And very disturbed, by their son)
Part of me say's kick them out of my life, never want to see them again......Which is kinda awkward, Cause, This guys dad did get me a job's(s) I think, Just so, He didn't have to talk about it..........And, my mother, seems to really like family (we've known them for 40+ years) That makes it even more awkward.
And my mother has always been In on their son knowing he is older then me, And should know more then me, And he should show me, I can't show him, And I have to be humble, But, he shouldn't have to, cause, He's older then me, That's what he think's. of course he's always been confused by thing's. Them/my Mom and Dad are in on this.
I just don't want to be anymore..........It's like everyone is playing a cruel joke on me.
This not about a Damn video anymore, It's about concern for my fellow human-being
But, writing a letter is a good idea,..............Thx