Aubrey is off to the Drs

Well Aubrey is to go for her Well Baby check up and also is to get her shots today, but she has a cold so I will not be letting them give her the shots,  I have got some family members upset over me not giving Aubrey milk yet because I want to wait until I see the Dr to talk with him.  I was explaining to them that I have many Questions about how much to give her and also if I cold still give her the Good start formual 9-24 to.  They are saying that I am depriving her and as soon as she turns 1 she should be on milk.  She just turned 1 3 weeks ago and I am still giving her the formual.  They are in a hurry to see how she likes it.  Also I have told them that I do not want her to have Choc milk and that was like WWIII all I heard was a little will not hurt.  I can not believe what I am hearing.  I want to get her used to regular milk first and I am getting hit with You need to let her try new things.  I just want her to wait on it for the time being and get the good stuff first.  Also no pop which she has been getting sips of and I asked for this to stop.  I feel like I am the bad guy always saying NO. I just want her to have the healty stuff first and then interduce some snacks later when she is a little older to no that they are treats and not food she gets all the time.    Aubrey has also caught a bad cold and I had to stay home with her for 2 days.  We will see the Dr and hope he will be able to clear her nose out.  She will not let me even try and she is Stronge.  I hope everyone is dong betterOH by the way we are getting 50% weather this weekend YAH I hope the baby is feeling better.