attorney money

I know enough to say I am ready to start the divorce process.  I have been working on finding any documents that the attorney will need.  I am also ready to sell my diamond for the retainer.  This diamond ring was the most beautiful gift I have ever received in my entire life.  It has now become a source of pain.  This thing is so f***ed up.  With all the hate, sickness. murder you hear about, we have to know that though safely at home we got our heart ripped out.  WTF? 

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elem8
elem8

She texted me last night after 2 weeks nc. She said that she has a document for me to sign agreeing to a no fault divorce. She wants this divorce to go fast. (She probably got it on line). I asked her to send me some paperwork regarding our property and other documentation that the attorney told me to try to get for our next meeting. She emailed back that she had \"envisioned\" this going off nice and quiet the way she is trying to do it. She is pissed and fired back that basically I am on my own re: the documents I asked for. So much for a fast divorce. I let her know that my attorney would get in touch with her. No MS Nice Guy is I don\'t \"just sign\". typical. The next 2 emails from her were shit balls. Same old same old.
elem8
elem8

OMG, I just read this 3 years later. How in the name of whoever did I ever live through this horrible time. Hard to read. So much has changed. I am a new person with a new life. No doubt though that this experience has tainted my perspective and I try to swim against this current daily.