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I'm at my wits end. My almost 9yr old son has ADHD and ODD. He does get into stuff and makes messes more than other kids. But he gets the raw end of the deal and blamed for everything even when he didn't do anything wrong. It happens every time we go go my husband's sisters. One time he was blammed for something and he wasn't even there. Her two oldest kids can't wait to tell on tyler for any little thing he does. I need advice on how to deal with this situation. It's finally happened enough that my father in law spoke up and said something on thanksgiving and my husband talked to me about it on the way home. So I'm not the only one that sees it now. For example my son got into some of my nephews legos and he took matters into his own hands and was mean and took them away from my son and then came and told on my son to his mom. So she talked to my son and explained that those legos are special to her son and not to be played with and he got in trouble but nothing was said to my nephew about being mean and jerking the legos away andyellingat my son. He later yelled at my son because their little cousin was whining because she wasn't getting her way and he made my son fall of the bunk bed latter and then pinned him to the wall while my son cried and was bossing him aroundyellingat him. We have another family thing there December 13th. My husband won't talk to his sister about this situation. His plan is to buy our son a new Lego set and open it there in front of our nephew and tell him no one but our son is allowed to play with it. I don't think that will teach our son the right way to handle it. Any advice is welcomed :)
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I'm at my wits end. My almost 9yr old son has ADHD and ODD. He does get into stuff and makes messes more than other kids. But he gets the raw end of the deal and blamed for everything even when he didn't do anything wrong. It happens every time we go go my husband's sisters. One time he was blammed for something and he wasn't even there. Her two oldest kids can't wait to tell on tyler for any little thing he does. I need advice on how to deal with this situation. It's finally happened enough that my father in law spoke up and said something on thanksgiving and my husband talked to me about it on the way home. So I'm not the only one that sees it now. For example my son got into some of my nephews legos and he took matters into his own hands and was mean and took them away from my son and then came and told on my son to his mom. So she talked to my son and explained that those legos are special to her son and not to be played with and he got in trouble but nothing was said to my nephew about being mean and jerking the legos away andyellingat my son. He later yelled at my son because their little cousin was whining because she wasn't getting her way and he made my son fall of the bunk bed latter and then pinned him to the wall while my son cried and was bossing him aroundyellingat him. We have another family thing there December 13th. My husband won't talk to his sister about this situation. His plan is to buy our son a new Lego set and open it there in front of our nephew and tell him no one but our son is allowed to play with it. I don't think that will teach our son the right way to handle it. Any advice is welcomed :)
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