Ask him out

I'm going to ask Dylan if he wants to go out with me tomorrow I'm super nervous and I might back out cuz what if he says no? Idk how to date or what to do on a date or even what to do for a date so I'm just going to completely embarrass myself so any suggestions will be helpful ty

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Nutin_Special
Nutin_Special

Take my advice girl. Don't start dating. This is not the time to be adding boys in your life right now. Believe me when I say you will regret it. I was in your shoes not long ago and if you want me to explain more about it message me and I'll explain it all.

I know you like this boy and you got a hankering for a cute boys attention. If you really need to do this and I know the feeling, ask him if you'd like to be friends. A wise quote once said "how can we be lovers if we can't be friends ". Build a friendship with him first. No holding hands, hugging or kissing. Just be friends and go from there. "Time, love and tenderness" will come. Don't just jump in especially if you don't know what to do or how to do things for a date.

Love you girl. Good luck.
mlr0853
mlr0853

Instead of a 'date' could you and some other kids get together to go to the movies...
Just Be Friends For Now...I'm sure that he would feel more comfortable too...

What Is The Rush?

"Hey Dylan I'm going to the movies with so and so, would you like to come too?? You pay your way, he pays his way...no commitments, that's another thing when I dated, the person doing the 'asking Pays"
Ladybug7
Ladybug7

As you know from my messages, I agree with ML and Nutin_Special. I'm glad you've decided to wait and think about it. Please consider talking with your therapist too. Hugs.