Articles for ending the affair

I spent some time digging up some articles for a new arrival on Cheaters Annonymous who is deeply enmeshed in an affair and trying to get out.  I tell you getting out is very very hard.  I couldn't do it and ultimately had to get caught.  People come on CA all the time who are trying to get out of an affair and they are scared and confused at best.  I have never had all that much to offer concerning getting out since I myself was unsuccessful.  I am glad I found these articles which I can copy and paste from here for new arrivals on CA who are struggling to end their affair and looking for help and hope and sometimes a swift kick in the ars.
 
I am finding some excellent articles on ending affairs and getting back on track with your life. This first one is excellent: How to Permanently End the Affair. 7 steps to Ending Your Affair http://www.goasksuzie.com/how-to-en... This one has some really good info http://www.yourtango.com/experts/jo... The following is an article on ending affairs from Marriage Builders. Marriage Builders is a great site to go to for the rebuilding process after the affair is over if you confess or your spouse discovers the affair.  This site has saved marriages struggling with the aftermath. http://www.marriagebuilders.com/gra... Those are the best 3 I found. I hope you find some help and strength from them. (((hugs)))

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feliciac
feliciac

I know people say things happen for a reason and sometimes our actions are not good but when people experience something negative (NO matter what it is) and then turn that experience around and use the event to help other\'s that is amazing. You are amazing and for anyone that is going through what you did.............I so respect you and when they say \"Pay it forward\" you are so doing that right now. It\'s your honesty that impresses me most! I\'m sending you a long message but will let you know that I posted here too. Extra big weekend hug - even though I\'m a week late at replying to your entry :-( sorry!