Arthur and me

My update - I am realizing that it's ok. Things have changed in the last hour or two and I'm totally ok with it. I don't like it but I'm ok with it.  Arthur's update - he spent today as his first day out of the crate while mommy was at work and did GREAT. He didn't kill Venus (my cat) and didn't rip up any of my stuff and didn't have an accident. My boy is growing up!!! :) I'm so proud. Happy day to everyone.