Art Show
Well I made over $100 today and the charity event went well. I got to see and hang with a few old artist friends.
Everything was fun until my fiance came after he got off work. I really think I hate him. He of course brought alcohol and slammed like 3 beers and then acted disoriented and was hateful to me because I lost something insignificant. He was also pissed because I sold my stuff and none of his stuff. Cuz he isn't an artist and his shit sucked duh.
Anyway now I have to go home and tomorrow supposed to go to a stupid concert with him. No one good is even gonna be there and there is live music at the festival I'm at now but he packed up my stuff and left!
We are supposed to have a short getaway planned for Tuesday night and Wednesday too. Should I even go? I mean I get a free massage and food but still. Nothing with him is enjoyable. I kinda wanna dump him. I caught him buying drugs again last week after he was sober for a month or two. I talked to his brother about it and his brother seemed to blame me and said I would be an awful person for making him homeless! Like that's my fault!
I'm just really angry. I had a good day until he got here. And now I get to look forward to going home and getting yelled at, plus it was embarrassing we got in a fight in front of my friends and family and ppl I know. Just makes me sick.
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“Cuz he isn't an artist and his shit sucked” lol
Did you sell The Great Outdoors?
Yes I sold both my signs that said the great outdoors, as well as a couple welcome signs and a hat.
The highlight of the day was getting to talk privately with an artist friend I hadn't seen in awhile. We bad-mouthed wannabe artists who flood and cheapen the market and make it hard for us.
Kick that bum to the curb....drugs are illegal and having them in your home can get you into trouble....dump the fiance......he is not anything but a penis that is sucking you dry on emotions.....take the high road and let him fend for himself with his drugs.....find other sucker to play with.....then your off hook for supporting him when he is wallowing in drugs....
Congrats on a job well done, Ghost.
Buttttttaaaaaa. . . I nearly ran to hide all my artwork from you when I read that commentary over fiancee's artwork. Ouch. Way to ding the artistic ego. I still haven't recovered from such encouragement.
The lines between love and hate are eternally fuzzy in Arf world. If I am passionate enough about somebody to love them, I am passionate enough to hate them, as well. Passion creates a complex weave, especially on the days the love of my life is telling me my art sucks.
Congrats on your art show success. That's great! You do such good work. I liked looking at pictures of your art work, they are so good.
Sorry you are having problems with your fiance'. I don't know what his problem is. Sorry he ruined part of your day.
If you decide to continue with the relationship (there seems to be a deep attraction that keeps you together despite his faults ) then you need to work out your own red lines. Things you won't tolerate. If he breaks this then you need to go elsewhere to get a break for a few days. Otherwise it's de ja vu
Btw : great news on the sale
Thanks flash but it is my house and I will not be forced out of my own home and my own bead just because some deadbeat is living here. Totally backwards. In previous relationship I lived with him, so I just left and came back home when things were bad.